
Melissa Auf der Maur
CanadaMember of The Smashing Pumpkins
singer-songwriter•photographer•film producer
Birthday
March 17, 1972
Birth Sign
Pisces
Birthplace
Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Age
54 years old
Height
5 ft 11 in (180 cm)
About
Melissa Gaboriau Auf der Maur is a Canadian musician, singer-songwriter, photographer, and film producer. She first gained prominence as the bassist for the alternative rock band Hole from 1994 to 1999, appearing on the acclaimed album Celebrity Skin. After a stint as a touring member of The Smashing Pumpkins in 2000, she launched a solo career with her self-titled debut in 2004 and followed with Out of Our Minds in 2010. Beyond music, she has exhibited her photography at Sotheby's and contributed to National Geographic.
Today, Auf der Maur runs Basilica Hudson, an arts and performance center in upstate New York, with her husband, filmmaker Tony Stone. In 2026, she returned to the spotlight with her memoir Even the Good Girls Will Cry, the new music project Bass Womb Room, and a reunion with The Smashing Pumpkins at Lollapalooza. Her work consistently blends analog aesthetics with a reflective, honest perspective.
Early Life & Background
Growing up in Montreal, Auf der Maur was surrounded by the arts and public life. Her father, Nick Auf der Maur, was a prominent journalist and politician, which gave her an early exposure to media and culture. At nineteen, she had a vivid dream about the power of sound, an experience she later credited as a formative influence on her artistic direction.
While studying at Concordia University in 1993, she formed the all-female indie rock band Tinker, playing in the city's underground scene. That project sharpened her bass playing and stage presence. In the summer of 1994, her big break arrived when she was recruited to join Hole, then on the cusp of mainstream success.
Career Growth
Joining Hole in 1994 placed Auf der Maur at the heart of the alternative rock explosion. She toured worldwide and appeared on Celebrity Skin (1998), a commercial and critical high point. After leaving Hole in 1999, she toured as a bassist with The Smashing Pumpkins in 2000, a role that cemented her connection to the band.
Her solo debut, Auf der Maur, arrived in 2004 on Capitol Records. The follow-up, Out of Our Minds, came in 2010 on her own label, PHI–MAdM Music, as part of a multimedia project spanning an album, film, and comic book. In 2026, she published her memoir and announced Bass Womb Room, her first new music in sixteen years. That July, she reunited with The Smashing Pumpkins for two Lollapalooza shows, sharing the stage with Olivia Rodrigo and YUNGBLUD.
Career Timeline
Public Image & Style
Auf der Maur's public image blends 1990s alternative rock charisma with a refined, analog-loving artistic identity. Her tall frame and commanding stage presence made her a striking figure in Hole and The Smashing Pumpkins. Today, she is seen as a thoughtful multimedia artist, celebrated for her photography and memoir. Her social media voice emphasizes authenticity and a love for analog technology. Fans span generations, from those who remember her in the 90s to younger listeners drawn by her 2026 reunion with The Smashing Pumpkins.
Fame & Fandom
Melissa Auf der Maur commands a global audience defined by deep reverence for 1990s alternative rock rather than mass-market ubiquity. Her cultural footprint remains substantial, anchored by her pivotal roles in Hole and The Smashing Pumpkins, yet she does not currently hold a placement in the published Global Top 1,000 rankings or any Top-100 scope list according to iFANN's August 2026 evaluation. The system has assessed her profile as EVALUATED_UNRANKED, meaning no specific numeric position or score is assigned at this time. This absence of a rank reflects a status where influence persists without crossing the threshold into the current top-tier celebrity bracket tracked by the engine. Her fanbase lacks a formal, documented name, existing instead as an organic community within broader alt-rock circles that celebrate her history and recent reinvention. While no organized campaigns or named rituals define her following, fans view her as a treasured figure who bridged the gap between grunge chaos and artistic maturity. The 2026 reunion with The Smashing Pumpkins at Lollapalooza, featuring surprise guests like Olivia Rodrigo, reignited interest among both legacy listeners and younger generations, proving her enduring relevance without generating a viral frenzy that would alter her ranking status.
Interesting Facts and Legends
At nineteen, a vivid dream about the power of sound crystallized her lifelong artistic philosophy. During her tenure with Hole, she captured raw audio textures by placing a handycam directly on her amplifier, later weaving those field recordings into her Bass Womb Room project. Her visual work has reached prestigious heights, with photography featured in National Geographic and exhibited at Sotheby's. She has also appeared in films including How to Make the Cruelest Month (1998) and Beyond Borders (2003). Her surname carries Swiss-French heritage, and she has famously described herself as 'pro-human, pro-analog.' A central legend surrounding her involves the 'Good Girl' mythos, a narrative of transitioning from innocence to a noise-making icon, which became the title of her 2026 memoir Even the Good Girls Will Cry. Fans still retell stories of her seamless integration into The Smashing Pumpkins during their 2000 tour, a period marked by internal fracturing where she stabilized the band's live sound. Another defining moment occurred in August 2026 at Lollapalooza, where she reunited with the band for a pre-show performance that went viral after Olivia Rodrigo and Yungblud made surprise guest appearances, creating a cross-generational rock milestone.
Notable Quotes
“These sounds are the quiet and private side of the girl who joined the big American major label rock band.”
“I am a pro-human, pro-analog, photographer, bass player, mother, believer.”
Family & Personal Life
Auf der Maur's father, Nick Auf der Maur, was a well-known Montreal journalist, politician, and radio personality. She has spoken about the creative environment he fostered. She is married to filmmaker Tony Stone, with whom she co-owns Basilica Hudson. The couple has at least one child, and she often refers to herself as a mother. They split their time between Hudson, New York, and other creative projects.
Notable Connections
Courtney Love, Billy Corgan, Tony Stone, Rufus Wainwright, Ric Ocasek, Indochine, Olivia Rodrigo, YUNGBLUD, Barry Williams.
Relationships & Dating History
Auf der Maur married filmmaker Tony Stone in the early 2000s. The couple has collaborated professionally, with Stone directing and producing parts of her Out of Our Minds project. They co-own Basilica Hudson and have a child together. As of 2026, they remain married and continue their creative partnership.
- MarriedTony Stone2003 - presentCurrentMarried to filmmaker Tony Stone; they co-own Basilica Hudson.
Salary, Net Worth In 2026
$10 Million
iFANN Editorial Team estimate
Per iFANN's editorial analysis, Melissa Auf der Maur's net worth stands at $10 Million as of 2026. This valuation reflects sustained income from royalties generated by her work with Hole, particularly the multi-platinum success of Celebrity Skin. Earnings continue to accumulate from her extensive touring history with both Hole and The Smashing Pumpkins. Although her solo discography, starting with her self-titled 2004 debut and followed by Out of Our Minds in 2010, did not achieve massive commercial sales, these albums provide a steady stream of residual revenue. Recent projects, including her 2026 memoir and new music releases, have added fresh value to her portfolio. Real estate holdings include Basilica Hudson, the arts and performance center she co-runs with her husband, Tony Stone, in upstate New York. Additional modest contributions come from her photography exhibitions and editorial contributions.
Awards & Accolades
View 2 records, honours and achievementsKnown For
Celebrity Skin
1998 · Bassist with Hole
Auf der Maur
2004 · Solo album
Out of Our Minds
2010 · Solo album
Even the Good Girls Will Cry
2026 · Memoir
Bass Womb Room
2026 · Music project
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Quick Facts
- Profession
- singer-songwriter, photographer, film producer
- Born
- March 17, 1972
- Birthplace
- Montreal, Quebec, Canada
- Gender
- Female
- Birth Sign
- Pisces
- Height
- 5 ft 11 in (180 cm)
- Spouse
- Tony Stone
- Children
- 1
Personal Details
- Full Name
- Melissa Gaboriau Auf der Maur
- Height
- 5 ft 11 in (180 cm)
- Spouse
- Tony Stone
- Children
- 1
- Education
- Concordia University
Filmography
3
Total
3
Film
0
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