Podcast on why first dates feel awkward
Talking to a stranger at a bar is nothing. Sit across from the same person and label it a date, and it goes strange on you. A woman waiting on her own date told him she hates first dates for exactly that reason, and his read is that the stakes got raised, nothing else. His framing: we're talking right now and nobody cares, so where's the weirdness coming from. People do this to themselves constantly, which is the fascinating part. #Dating
Transcript (en)
I was at this bar and I was talking to this girl who was waiting on her date and she was saying how like she hates first dates like it's so weird and it was just a funny moment because I was like you know the only reason it's like that is because you know you've raised the stakes yeah your stakes that's a great framing I was like look like we're talking right now and no one cares do you feel weird? I'm at your date so So that was just a funny moment. It's fascinating how often we do that as people. If you enjoyed this, be sure to hit that like button and follow to stay up to date with what's going on in the world and everything else memes and markets. Peace.
