Lala Baptiste on separating from Jay Cinco
by dawit: Lala Baptiste
Lala Baptiste and Jay Cinco mutually decided to separate so things don't turn toxic. She notes her frontal lobe wasn't developed in past relationships over five years ago, meaning she never loved enough to prioritize growth back then. Now she wants both of them to grow and heal individually. She loves him and wants him to succeed even if they aren't right for each other yet. Only time or divine intervention will tell the outcome. "I want us to heal the things that we need to heal so we can be at a healthy point".
Transcript (en)
We mutually decided that this was the best decision right now because we don't want things to go left We don't want this to turn into something toxic You guys are so used to seeing messy breakups where people are dragging each other and exposing each other In all my other past relationships, my frontal lobe was not even developed These were all five plus years ago and something I learned is that I never loved someone enough To acknowledge that I love you so much that I want the best for you I want you to grow and I want us to grow and heal the things that we need to heal so that we can be at a healthy point. And if anyone has been in those shoes, you can understand. If you haven't, you're just not gonna get it and that is fine. But I love this person so much. I want to see them win. I want to see them do great things. And if that means that we have to take a moment and have space and separate, then that's what it has to be. And also if that means that I'm not the person for them because only time will tell, only God will tell, then that is also something that you have to accept.
