Nikki Glaser on cuck kinks
Nikki Glaser insists her desire to hear every detail about her partner's past hookups isn't jealousy or a result of low self-esteem, even if she admits to having some insecurity. She calls it a specific sexual kink instead, noting that partners often assume the curiosity is a trap leading to fights. While she clarifies she isn't a cuck because she doesn't sit in the corner crying, she enjoys watching without wanting to participate at all. Nikki argues she has high self-esteem regarding her identity as a cool person and believes letting him sleep with others will actually make him less likely to want to stay with them.
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Like whenever I'm with a guy I want to hear about like when was the last time you hooked up? What happened? Where did you do? Like I want to know all the things and they think it's a trap They're like oh you're gonna get jealous and this is gonna lead to like fights later on but I want to like hear about it and talk about it and I don't know it just it really does it for me I it's it's a weird thing and he Rejects that yeah, he thinks he thinks that it's it means that I have low self-esteem, which I'm not denying I do But that's not what it is. I don't but I don't think that's where I mean maybe that's where it comes from But it does it I don't think it is. I think it's a sexual kink. Yeah, it's not. I'm not a cuck I'm not in the corner like my boyfriend like like sad about like Girl be a cuck Yeah, I didn't know a girl could be a cuck. I'm sure they could I mean it makes sense. Well if you're just like my wanna stop fucking my boyfriend Like I could see that but no I'm like in the corner like do it and I don't even want to be involved I'm just like, I love it. She's getting it. And I'm not jealous. I don't know why I'm not jealous. First of all, I've been fucked by enough guys who haven't wanted to be with me afterwards. So I don't think that my boyfriend's going to fuck someone and be like, I need to marry her. If anything, he's going to be like, I need to get away from this. Like, it'll make him not want to fuck her anymore. Yeah, yeah. That usually does it. Based on my experience, when you have sex with a guy, he doesn't really want to hang out with you afterwards. That is hilarious. So the way to keep your man is to let him fuck other girls. That way he won't want to be with them anymore. Yes. And if he does want to be with them, go be with them. Why? I don't want to keep you from that. But I just, I have a lot of self-esteem in terms of like, I'm a cool chick. I feel like, yeah, I'm a lot, as you said on the last podcast.
