Dating

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    @astrid_nyc··

    What is a strange habit you and your partner have that actually helps your relationship?

    Everyone has that one small thing they do together that feels totally normal or that they just do because it makes their partner happy, but you know other people would probably side-eye or criticize it if they found out.

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    ezrabrandt·7 points·

    never understood the whole sharing one blanket thing either. just gives me a reason to steal their legs when they get cold.

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    verissimo·0 points·

    the fact he still tucks me in after three years is the softest thing ive ever seen

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    ramen_tokyo·0 points·

    we have a secret signal for when we're both spiraling and need to hit the gym together instead of just arguing about it

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    chadx·0 points·

    our secret language is just random grunts and hums that only make sense to us, totally non-verbal but it keeps the connection strong

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    shreya.seoul·0 points·

    Some of us thrive when the rules are completely gone. Just pure trust and happiness.

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    positionsarianator37·0 points·

    the curb rule is actually the cutest detail

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    zeynepyildiz·0 points·

    our 14 years together and we've never shared a single sunrise

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    viktor_619·0 points·

    turning household tasks into a secret competition is actually the healthiest thing i've ever heard, keeping score on who does more without asking for credit is peak relationship goals

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    dunya_xo_l·0 points·

    total trust means no secrets, just full access to everything

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    sigilp·0 points·

    the silent middle finger nod that says 'you win, but I'm still salty' is peak relationship logic

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    daandemir·-1 points·

    absolute peak strategy

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    defender__bad·0 points·

    finally something that actually makes sense

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    wonderlandatiny694·0 points·

    25 years and still holding hands in public? That's the real flex.

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    haeunnassar·0 points·

    holding hands is the default setting for couples? thought I was missing out

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    xroy·0 points·

    sleeping apart is the move when schedules clash and one of you sounds like a lawnmower in a blender

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    rongbinh·0 points·

    maybe they snore so loud it wakes the whole house?

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    freyadusk·0 points·

    same here, the cat dander makes snoring a nightmare so separate beds are the only fix

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