Ellen Pompeo is sticking with Gray's Anatomy despite earning $20M a year, but her manager warned her that the paycheck would make some people unhappy. He asked if she was ready to be unpopular because not everyone cheers for someone making that kind of money. She admitted it never occurred to her that her salary could cause friction and called the warning useful prep. Other women have publicly said it too: it is genuinely hard for people to celebrate others. #EllenPompeo